Unknown Speaker 00:00 Your arms. Indeed. Everything that happens when you put a rubber on, it just doesn't matter much if you're making love with Jehovah it makes sense. That makes sense in basketball. It makes sense. Unknown Speaker 00:20 I don't know. Maybe I'll give this a try. Right Hey, JC girl I gotta come on I gotta pick up people going to answer tonight. Hey, Unknown Speaker 00:33 thanks a lot, man. Hey, no problem. So you plays basketball over and danced the night away. We'll do that Pete I guess we should scream tonight. And it was pretty exciting. Especially when the natural goes with everything touching everything else. When you know, just take a look at wearing a shirt, slacks. There's a line standing between the real human need. Anyway it's called a pretty thick the nine sixteenths Unknown Speaker 01:39 of an inch. It's more than 5000 times as thick as the average rubber. Really? How much sensation and I found a lot of advertising is confused the question of sensitivity. Each condom brand claims to be more sensitive than the next. How do you measure sensitivity? Most men would say the thinner the bed and independent testing laboratory research scientists measured the thicknesses of 25 leading brands with rubber condoms and skins. The results. All 25 are about the same thickness. The differences between them were so small that it took a roomful of scientific equipment to detect any differences whatsoever. In summing up the report, one scientist said I doubt that anyone can tell the difference between the thickest and the thinnest condoms with his eyes, his fingers or anything else. The fact is using the condom, this is natural was showering with a ring on your finger. But guys, just let your ring always remember. Keep a rubber on hand we're standing in front of us it was fun to see where virtually hundreds of people have been lined up all day. Waiting a very unusual sale. 50% off on condoms. This can be the nation's first run on brothers. Hi, Fred. I have 1400 40 columns you know what the fundamentals okay. I know like some Unknown Speaker 03:21 prophylactics Unknown Speaker 03:23 should they know what size? Regular pre packer, candles themselves are all the same size? Oh, yeah, Unknown Speaker 03:35 sure. Three. Unknown Speaker 03:41 Don't put these things in your pocket. Don't put them in your wallet either after a while. Okay. Don't put them in the glove compartment of your car. Because after all, people wrap them do. I think I see the football Gregory Prinzessin standing up to the paper. Do you use condoms? Surgeon? Why? Well, on the field, I Unknown Speaker 04:01 block Exactly. Off the bill. My wife and I use condoms to block that sperm and type of the pregnancy route. Unknown Speaker 04:11 Excuse me, aren't you? Great Chucky. So we've been charged with the Jefferson Starship. Right to use goblins. Unknown Speaker 04:17 Definitely. When I was in high school, I was gonna be out with a guy who had his girlfriend pregnant at the age of 16. I think he was ready to be a body and So ever since then. I use condoms. They are so easy to get going or get them and no one's going to ask me about it. And not as much as you'd be hassled if you didn't use it anyway. So yeah, I'd Unknown Speaker 04:34 definitely use it. Unknown Speaker 04:35 That's the story from here. The biggest round numbers and this city's districts. That's Unknown Speaker 04:45 a condom sale. They really aren't coming back. I use condoms myself, but frankly, I'm kind of shy about buying in being the mailman. Everyone in town knows me. So I buy my condoms by mail. Mail Order condoms are advertised in dozens of magazines. Find by mail it's easy and it's anonymous. They even come in an unmarked box like this one how do I know this box contains condoms because that's my house right over there John Unknown Speaker 05:36 What's your that very delicate question of spices very close to my heart was like magic you guys Unknown Speaker 05:51 are so good you forgot something Unknown Speaker 05:55 I can't think of anything but you can follow me Unknown Speaker 06:03 oh my gosh Richard Unknown Speaker 06:18 never toured Congo demonstrate how to use a condom for keeping the generating at the same time you've got to become erect that prevents tear Terry Unknown Speaker 06:51 then put it off before you put it in why? Because sperm can leave the penis we've already rejected you don't want to become pregnant Unknown Speaker 06:59 not right now lose some room at the end to have a job or lose power Unknown Speaker 07:22 Yes, trying to there's never any feeling of interruption. Let's get on with the show. Unknown Speaker 07:28 Now what about such equipment? Unknown Speaker 07:31 What made you great really I worked in Unknown Speaker 07:35 lubrication lubrication when the natural batches occasion well you can prevent breakage by waiting until the woman is fully wrapped and lubricated to a certain Unknown Speaker 07:49 condition. This is true Unknown Speaker 07:54 but lubrication is very important. The whole show you don't want to hurt me. Women take different amounts of time to become fully aroused and lubricated you may slow down and let the magic to see them as Unknown Speaker 08:21 okay Unknown Speaker 08:22 here guys make sure to comprehensively basically penis with a full stop so that you don't leave because of the skirt inside of the woman. Are you ready I was I lied about it. Unknown Speaker 09:01 injury you advocated for years of pregnancy. This can be as effective as birth control pills, research and contraceptive technology that we can resource in the field shows the pills 90 to 96% of African American researchers have found condoms to be men you'd Unknown Speaker 09:28 like to see the end, state accurate and do it but I'd like to hear what your thoughts are about this so far. Is that it? Was Unknown Speaker 09:34 it? Was it made by a condom company? Unknown Speaker 09:38 No. It says at the end. No, Unknown Speaker 09:39 it's not. It really isn't. Say it again. Unknown Speaker 09:44 Who sees this? Did you say it was Unknown Speaker 09:48 right it's intended as a as a piece of sex education used for whatever audience Unknown Speaker 09:54 wants to be young people? Unknown Speaker 09:55 Yes primarily. Unknown Speaker 09:59 I didn't get The feeling that I, it was it was primarily very positive. And I'm a little worried that it didn't show enough about what can happen to, even if when you use the wrong word, it can break, there was a little topic that we can be careful when you take it off, stuff like that. But I think it's a graph of contraceptive but that the risk also has to be talked about before it's used, or there's still a very large danger. Unknown Speaker 10:32 I didn't like it because it was it made me embarrassed more embarrassed than I wouldn't be if I just saw normal people using condoms. I thought all that jumpiness can laughter and fooling around, it was like, Saturday Night Live, I didn't take it very seriously. Unknown Speaker 10:51 Put down a lot of words, I mean, they do mention the columns in true condoms break much less now, they really are very well made. So in terms of breakage, the super condom is used only once breakage is not a great problem, what is a great problem is that does have to be taken off very carefully. And that really can't wait, man can't wait to come out of the vagina until after the penis is lost in erection. If you wait till then, then some of the semen may leak out. So man really has to go out of the vagina while his penis is still erect. And to take the condo off at that point. You're really open, Unknown Speaker 11:33 you make up my mind. On the one hand, I thought it was so light and funny that it was difficult to take it seriously. And so to show this to someone, it would be kind of difficult for them to take seriously. But on the other hand, in dealing, especially with where I'm at now I'm gonna, I was gonna say dealing with high school students, you need to know that they're going to pay attention to you. But I think we really underestimate the serious nature and the responsibility that that 16 and 15 and 17 year old people have. So So I mean, it's almost it's almost insulting to them because they are very capable of being responsible, responsible people. I don't think we need to turn it into, like it was like a Sesame Street sort of thing. I think they're much brighter. It's really wonderful introduction in the next movie, but I'd like to hear it. Yes. Unknown Speaker 12:25 God telling us economy, politics. I think what bothered me a lot was the ceiling, Unknown Speaker 12:44 put the economy a lot. Unknown Speaker 12:45 Like we're talking about being responsible. And then all of a sudden, he's pushed out of the situation. Totally. Unknown Speaker 12:51 He's not there. It's like he returns every sector. Unknown Speaker 12:56 As very price sensitive as being sensitive. He's made absolutely immobile. Absolutely. Unknown Speaker 13:04 Just one big dip so it was also quite sexist. Unknown Speaker 13:15 Yeah. Unknown Speaker 13:19 Cool, the same thing, you Unknown Speaker 13:23 have to ask the man that Unknown Speaker 13:32 doesn't feel the same. Unknown Speaker 13:45 I think that, you know, the movie, again, tried to make a point between a couple of men who were playing basketball, and the guy who was very comfortable using condoms, makes a statement that lovemaking can be wonderful. Whether you're, you know, even when you're using a condom, to be sure, it changes some things because you do have to think about putting a condom on when the penis is erect. So there are some things you have to compromise about. But what we all have to figure out is whether that compromise is worth it. Third, and a conundrum. That's gonna take us a real long time. We'll talk about that. No, I just want to say that Unknown Speaker 14:31 we tried to get as much different kind of materials or can we have kids from all levels of intelligence? And they're certainly what we present is with the teacher, they're talking about it. And I can see and that certainly is different than other things we can do. Unknown Speaker 14:50 Like stop the conversation going on. Sure. I think it would be get Unknown Speaker 14:56 some people involved. Unknown Speaker 14:59 Thanks. What he's going to do even if it has faults you could use it as a good conversation starter and a good education starter. You've even said it's one of the best Unknown Speaker 15:10 that there is around that I'm Unknown Speaker 15:14 gonna show you the one that I think is less FPS Unknown Speaker 15:18 there's a lot of discussion going on about AIDS among the high schools is in a lot of programs is they're included in these big discussion that's the question that condoms are preventing is that our boosters that Unknown Speaker 15:37 oh, it is definitely introduced and I think there's one silver lining to that horrible illness it is that it may encourage a lot of chosen opponents sexual relationships to use as a means of contraception and as a means of preventing sexually transmitted disease prevents a whole lot of sexually transmitted diseases including us there's a real effort to talk about it effective New York City Board of Education has a much more frank discussion about AIDS than it does about sexuality in general that just did get introduced into the sex education program. But like I was saying before in terms of lip service, the people who were taught to give that program really had minimal training, so you can't make people comfortable talking about sex when they haven't had a whole lot of sensitive training. So it's, it's there and it's supposed to be part of the curriculum. How effectively as taught health providers certainly are beginning to include that in their discussion of the one of the real advantages of using and conduct is not only serving as a means of birth control but a means of preventing sexually transmitted disease Unknown Speaker 16:47 on the economy Unknown Speaker 16:50 if you try it for then because the rubber and I'm sorry but I tend to do is to bring one today I don't have a problem with is that when the penis isn't erected just won't fit it's just it will stretch and be like a glove. Good timing perfect timing to be able to go on time just starting to live in their rental car Unknown Speaker 18:40 I know they make Unknown Speaker 18:41 up ones like that you can buy like almost Unknown Speaker 18:46 400 to buy Unknown Speaker 18:50 them for like 80 And that's because they have such a huge sales. This pasta Unknown Speaker 18:55 300 Listen we're gonna see cost per click. They're not cheap. They are coming down I don't know now in South St. VHS United from some of those Unknown Speaker 20:06 I was born in South Bronx. And I was about I moved from there. Between the Bronx and Seattle to school, I don't like school much. And I'm very new during junior high school was a bit rocky, but it was much easier in high school, the High School finished because there's really not much that you could do with that child. Again, the child growing up was pretty bad because my mother just, I'm just a mom kicked me out. And I was 17. And my family and I noticed from every now and then my father passed, to see my brother for to see my dad, my mom thinks is definitely Papa 14, when she first had her own systems, when she had her daughter, my mom had her baby. Baby when she was 16, she didn't make any money now, she told him that she was married, she really wasn't squashing that guy, legally married. Maybe, I don't know, maybe because I'm making an investment if I hadn't been, and to have a baby with me that I would be limited. The things that I could do. My sister, old, she's 24 now. And she has to stay home to watch a baby. And we should go home watching her baby, she has to make sure she's back right ready to pick up her other two children. But she and now we're going to wait a while for them all the love to have a baby have a husband too, which allowed him to do that within Hamilton was from a mother the way she would sit down and talk to me was my Bible. Because she was so much into her religion. You know, she would never taught me the Bible. And it was all straightforward. The way strict manner we're constantly challenging, which did we absolutely no good whatsoever. And nobody really talked to you, if she gave me her version of it, I had to go out there and buy my own version of it. I found out firsthand, quote, unquote, was really bad. You know. It was what happened was my best friend and I was completely cut out from school. I was 12 years old. And in seventh grade. And we decided to go to her boyfriend. She was always telling me about her boyfriend. And her boyfriend knew that she was bringing a friend. So he had a friend, he was sitting around drinking without drink. So I sat there listening to Him, LISTENING to Him, Charlie took me into going into the bedroom. Everything was fine, because I used to go. And he told my friends telling me how high you could go, you have to do anything. And of course I listen to how to make. So we went here. And it was fine. He wanted to go a little bit further. And I really wasn't ready for it. Because after what happened happened, I went home and I didn't know what was going on my body. I just knew I was in pain. And I was just too young for it at that time, you know, even though somebody tells you, Well, this goes there. He shouldn't do it. It's not enough to prepare you for first time. If you're not old enough, you really can't handle it all that well. They're saying I prepare you too much of a baby. I'm not saying that. Mentally, you know, I couldn't do it. And I know that my friends would try the idea of age couldn't easily advise anyone else to wait till they get a little bit older. You know start experimenting with first time having sex motion girls will use contraception because a lot of the time they don't know that. So why would they go interception? My first time I didn't have it. I didn't know I don't have anything, say, and what was on my mind. Unknown Speaker 25:07 But I'm a young girl today, a lot of them might be that they won't be pregnant the first time. So, you know, doesn't make any difference women have contraception the first time. And it's not true, should always have contraception, which goes back to what I said before. We are old enough to, we only have two hands who thinks they should be old enough to know that she should have contraception, but they should first time. How do I handle it? Well, there was a time when I knew all about birth control, because you always hear it in school. They're always showing films on it. But teaching somebody to always come in and talk to you about birth control. And the guys was always telling me pet, and you get on suddenly having birth control. I didn't know what I wanted to do. So I used to always take the child from home to work. So she sees little signs Planned Parenthood. And again, the Bronx number, I need a Bronx animal by heart, I still do it to nine to eight baths and still not. And then the paper I work on, always has these little service announcements. So you would click to go to whatever. And one day I'm Isha. Nobody else is around at the work, you know, anybody went home, and I got out of falling down. And the lady picked up she said, this is playing him. And I was really I don't know, why was the woman no, which never saw me before in our life. But a couple days later, I tried it again. And I told her I wanted to come in for a checkup. She has a high school students. And I talk to you that I have high school ICT. Yes, she gave me an appointment to come in. Now. I used to always want my own baby. You know who played her here? until like, Larry Graham was a great reason why should have a baby now that everybody know, hey, I'm pregnant. I'm pregnant. And it works First, you know, we let people know that first. Pregnant. Nurse, great. You know, you're famous, supposedly. But you got to think what happened that will go in with us down. You know, you nine months pregnant and you're wobbling around and people are looking at you like, wow, you're young. You have a baby, you know, at the love agreement. I understand. Especially after the baby's born. Everybody will say it's cute. It's cute, but you're the one who has to deal with. And when I wake up in the morning, I'm like my sleep a lot. So if I wake up, I wake up just return beat me up. I don't wake up in time enough to get me out the house and my baby out the house. Also though, I can be baby around. I have a boyfriend. I guess you could say I have a boyfriend. I have a male friend. Okay, put it like that. Because you say you have a word for the limiting. I have a male friend. And I see him every day. He knows that I have I have baby. So I take it as my responsibility now to understand that he wants a baby but he understands that he will not get one from me. I had to see that I have a boyfriend and maybe we get married have a baby and partment but that's all it is, is a fantasy. Because you grew up around a fantasy isn't reality. What's reality is, he'll tell you, he'll love you. He loves you. You know you have his baby for him. You know, that's the best way to show him how much you love him. And after babies here, you're doing six months of welfare. Now office manager and move connection. And the way I had gotten that was by moving early way before someone came, I can watch my school counselor whenever I wanted something to do. So she told me to fill out these applications to put down the qualifications, which weren't very many. So I filled it out. You know, I didn't think very much to come out of it. So I feel that went out in one application Pacific was summer job. And the place that caught me was a place called jobs. What they do is during the summer they give teenagers jobs. And the great part about it that they don't take our taxes and they can't give you your patient so that and they call me and they asked me to work with the NEC Unknown Speaker 29:59 having my Our job isn't my own money was important to me because it gave me a sense of independence. Whereas I didn't have to ask my parents, or anybody else for the money I wanted for sleepovers or clothes I wanted for anyone who wasn't in front of the TV. You know, when people asked me what I did at school, there was a sense of pride in being tell them, I have a job. I'm an office manager. And while I was working, it was like, it was more than a job because I was a part of a paper. And the paper was called a Youth Connection, because that's a lot of minutes in high school. And I was a part of something and people gave me spec. And it was like a moving machine, they needed me just like they needed anybody else to get the paper move. So it was really a great thing to get in touch with this organization and time enough for them to get me that shot. You know, and I I just couldn't have done all of that when he came to my mother Unknown Speaker 31:02 you know, ahead of LBC growing up you know, communicating and the only way I will get help with let people know what happened to organizations out there who helped me either teach a lesson and helped me keep going on with my life. Keep working if I opened up my mouth we're running kind of late okay, you could probably take any comments on this, I guess some people had a second shot Unknown Speaker 32:26 very together yet one that I was able to sit in front of a camera, and I think it would be really interesting for me to see something like that, and 16 or 17 have been, you know, because they didn't make any choices. But it's mostly because it was more than just a sexual issue against her talking about making choices and taking choices in our lives. And that's, we I think that's one of the things that that takes education has to do is not just teach whether with the biology of reproduction, but of young making choices and, and Nelson making choices. Unknown Speaker 33:09 I thought it was good after this truthers that some girls I have sisters and assistants get pregnant. You know, they learn from that and they say, Oh, well, I don't want to be like dumb. I want to become so bad that I don't want this stuff to eat and death. And, you know, I thought it was good. For me. That's my opinion. Because now I realize that there are girls out there that do have become somebody started getting pregnant. Unknown Speaker 33:38 I have to do something. I don't want to put you on the spot. But I'll tell you my time spans and I've got all sorts of STEM education and my parents and I are very open about it. But when it came to going and actually getting contraceptives that was never an issue. And I got I was I was pregnant as a teenager also. And would you would you feel comfortable going to Planned Parenthood even though you know it's accessible. Unknown Speaker 34:08 I don't have the kind of desire love. But I live with my grandmother and my grandmother hates it took about six. She thinks that success for all people, women over 2530 And she says that how? She says successful 25 or older she tells me that not to have said she will she will she tells me that if I get pregnant. That is going to be my big responsibility. That is hard to have kids but she does not talk to me about sex. She does not want to go with me no way to get pregnant. And my mother named my mother like sisters and she tells me everything but she does not add that she doesn't want to go with me anywhere to go to get pills. She's, I think one of the things that actually answers so Unknown Speaker 35:04 the views on your home and and would you feel comfortable going by yourself to do that? Unknown Speaker 35:11 Yes. I have friends that they work in adults it's like you're my son. I know this lady she's a counselor she asked me you know if you have any help to go to her so one day I did she she said no, because you know I don't think I was right she was right. And I've never been to a situation when I think Unknown Speaker 35:44 for the first movie scene OMG This one wasn't a way to take seriously our voices my friend you want to first one disclaimer I did this book 12 by went in the house and same for my friends anyway that changed things Unknown Speaker 36:16 people helped out over the last half an hour mantapa Unknown Speaker 36:19 yes people want to stay Unknown Speaker 36:29 on the committee Leadership Club close to defending once Unknown Speaker 36:32 it was a tiny session. Thank you all for coming and continue the dialogue and Unknown Speaker 36:48 if any of you want to see this stuff that I drove back I just thought I'm interested you might see Unknown Speaker 36:54 something a bit different from this is just stuff that I picked up is Unknown Speaker 37:00 that's just you know, somebody that was waiting in the clinic. Unknown Speaker 37:07 Putting it isn't one Unknown Speaker 37:11 guy putting in Jerry was very different. I mean, this is just as straightforward